So, you have decided to take the plunge and sign up for online dating. Now, you want to make sure that you spend time getting to know the right people. The first thing to consider is what you are looking for. This not only includes the attributes of your date but also what you want from the relationship. Are you looking for ‘the one’? If so, you don’t want to rush things. Don’t just click on the first pretty picture and discount everyone else. Take time looking at those that match the criteria of what you want from a date. If you are looking for someone who loves to travel, is spontaneous, likes to have fun and is carefree, take some time to read their personals to make sure that you find this type of date. When you do find someone that ticks all of your boxes, make sure you get to know them properly. Don’t just chat but have some fun.
Find out if they make you laugh?
Is it fun flirting and does it come naturally?
Does there seem to be chemistry there?
Do they share the same ambitions and interests?
If you can answer yes to these questions then, it sounds like you are on the right track. Then, the next natural step is to arrange to meet for a date somewhere local to you both doing something that you will both enjoy.